Monarch and Level 1: Compatibility and Challenges
A Level 1 must enjoy some degree of wealth to date Monarch. Even so, these two aren’t compatible beyond casually dating. Monarch needs for her man to be able to peel back the layers and really get to know her mentally. But this requires seeing beyond her beauty, bubbly personality and high-powered sexuality. A Level 1 struggles to see the hidden aspects of females and judges them based almost exclusively on their beauty, careers, personality and what they tell him. What might save a Level 1 however is if Monarch has had a string of bad relationships with more dominant male Mindsets and is shedding her old wings to become a beautiful new creature. This metamorphous may include adding a Level 1 to her dating preferences. If this is the case, a successful Level 1 may get a chance to seriously date Monarch. But this experiment likely won’t change very much in the long run.
Monarch
Monarch’s governing houses are Love and Hope, which means she has a lot of love to give and expects a lot in return. But unlike other female Mindsets that comprise the quadrant of “emotions”, getting Monarch to open these sacred doors can be quite tricky. First, you must be able to get her mentally. And if you base it on her provocative dress code or how she behaves around other men (which can be friendlier than most guys dating her would want), you won’t get her at all. But if you can solve the puzzle, what awaits you is a level of blind dedication and torrid sex unmatched by any other female Mindset.
Monarch has one of faintest connections to her protective 5th house of Scorn. In fact, only Dolphin’s connection is weaker. Normally, this would mean that Monarch would be left to exist on this planet minus any protection from the universe. But the good news for Monarch is that her guardian spirit Vanity found a way to draw enough dark energy from her 5th house of Scorn to offer airtight protection in key areas of Monarch’s life, such as her sexual journey and her quest to be respected and not betrayed. As a result, despite Monarch’s provocative dress code and bubbly personality, she has very high standards as it relates to being intimate. She can also snap out of love in the blink of an eye should her man disrespect her or betray her by cheating.
Level 1
It’s not uncommon for a Level 1 to acquire wealth and positions of authority. Many who see him in work mode are quick to assume that he’s a tough guy or dominant male by nature. But the man beneath the career is about as mild mannered as they come. In fact, no male Mindset is more nonconfrontational than a Level 1. While most female Mindsets see these traits as a quality, there are a few out there who see them as weaknesses to exploit for the sake of their own socioeconomic journey. Because a Level 1s lack of discernment on a primal level, he can struggle with determining which type of female he’s dealing with.
A Level 1 is by no means stupid. In fact, only a Level 4 can compete with him in the area of raw intelligence. However, book smarts aside, a Level 1 can be very naïve, especially when it comes to his assessment of a woman’s interest in him. If she behaves like she’s interested, then in his mind, she is. And unless she makes it perfectly clear that she isn’t—and in some instances, it has to be reiterated multiple times—he will continue to believe that she is. A Level 1 does however notice contradictions in a woman’s behavior and what she’s telling him. He can also get suspicious and will eventually become upset enough to ask questions. But what he’s not good at is reading between the lines and drawing his own conclusions on a female’s true intentions. At the end of the day, the answers must be given to him.
Monarch and Level 1
One of the disadvantages to Monarch’s preference for dominant men is that once their strong minds figure her out mentally, they often take advantage of her. As a result, it’s not uncommon for Monarch to find herself picking up the pieces and starting over. It’s at these transformative points in her life that a successful Level 1 has the greatest opportunity to date her. It certainly helps that he’s nonjudgmental. Instead of focusing on Monarch’s past, he will focus on doing whatever he’s capable of doing to get her back on her feet so that (at least in his mind) they can be together.
A successful Level 1 will likely assess Monarch as a woman who grew up on the wrong side of the tracks or had some tough breaks in life that she couldn’t quite rebound from. He’ll believe that she will adore a man of his financial pedigree who will love her and rescue her from her financial or emotional woes. This, of course, couldn’t be further from the truth. The fact of the matter is Monarch would rather have a man of meager means who gets her mentally than a man of great wealth and importance who is unable to understand her. But if Monarch is struggling financially, she’ll Let a Level 1 think whatever he wants if it will help her improve her economic situation.
An issue that a Level 1 will struggle with is the type of attention Monarch seems to intentionally draw from the more dominant male Mindsets when they’re out. This is merely Monarch’s subconscious letting her have some fun while boosting self-esteem levels for the little girl inside who felt unattractive as a child. For some Monarchs, despite maturing to become very shapely and sexy, they still feel unattractive. So, the attention helps to deal with all of that. The reason why it’s always dominant males in her face is because they’re usually the ones with the balls to approach her.
In any event, at the end of the day, it’s playful banter on Monarch’s part that has become infused into her personality. But it can be hard for all involved to tell without knowing her inside and out. This may explain why understanding her is so important to her. A Level 1 will certainly find these stronger-minded males to be quite annoying. The more dominant males will know right away that the Level 1 is way out of his league with Monarch. They will also sense the lack of primal energy resonating in him and conclude that he won’t do anything about the attention they’re giving his Monarch.
More than likely, a Level 1 will quietly deal with the disrespect. Not because he realizes anything previously explained about Monarch but out of fear of the dominant males and perhaps not wanting to piss Monarch off. But if he starts to feel too threatened by the unwanted attention, he might just snap. But when a Level 1 gets that caught up into his emotions, he tends to lose sight of the gravity of the situation. As a result, he winds up saying or doing something that gets him punched in the face, if not worse.
At the end of the day, it takes a certain type of man to peel back Monarch’s protective cocoon and understand the woman buried within. A Level 1 simply is not that type of man. But again, if he catches Monarch when she’s shedding her old wings and transforming, he just might get an opportunity to date her. But he’s still better off finding a woman who’s less complex and more his speed.
A Level 1 is a family man who embraces the concepts of marriage, fatherhood and children. He also prides himself on being a stable and steady provider. And while Monarch can be very flamboyant and spontaneous, her true passion is being a wife and mother. All she needs to thrive in a family dynamic is stability, which is what a Level 1 is known for. But again, there are many hurdles that these two must overcome if family life is going to work for them.
