Dolphin and Level 3: Compatibility and Challenges
A relationship between Dolphin and a Level 3 is passionate, intense and very dysfunctional. A Level 3 is masterful at coming across so unlike what he truly is, which is someone who believes he has the right to exploit whatever weaknesses he can find in others, male or female. What Dolphin likely sees is a man who is very practical in nature and has a no-nonsense approach to life, which she respects. These traits accompanied with his dark charm and raw, primal essence are so appealing to her that she likely doesn’t notice that he’s quietly sniffing out every weakness she has, to possibly exploit. If a Level 3 is struggling financially or of the streets, he will almost certainly see Dolphin’s fetish for love and hope as weaknesses that justify his desires (and possible need) to take advantage of her.
Dolphin
Dolphin has the purest connection to her 1st house of Love and 2nd house of Hope. This means that when she surrenders to love she’s prone to surrender hard and fast. And when she surrenders to love, she relies heavily on hope to weather any storms that may develop between her and the person she loves, which is similar to relying on fresh air to put out a fire. Bad idea. While previous relationships gone bad can slow Dolphin down a bit, surrendering to love is still who she is. Ideally, Dolphin needs a man who can appreciate the powerful love and hope energy that runs through her without using these emotions against her.
Female Mindsets with a more powerful connection to their 5th house of Scorn are bound to strict principles and codes of conduct preventing them from surrendering their feelings to the wrong man so easily. They also enjoy powerful ancestral energy “voices from other realms” to help guide and warn them. But because Dolphin’s connection to Scorn is so faint, she is unable to tap into any of its protective powers. Her guardian, Surrender is only able to draw energy from Dolphin‘s houses of Love and Hope, which does little to protect her from dominant male energy, especially when it’s packaged in an appealing way. Sadly, only becoming hardened by way of years of bad relationships taking their toll can offer Dolphin some protection from Scorn. But such concentrated dark energy can also eat away at her.
Level 3
A Level 3 is governed by the merciless realm of Conquest. Energy resonating from this powerfully dark realm makes this Mindset both dominant and fearless. This realm also provides a Level 3 with a powerful spirit of discernment, allowing him to sense the strengths and weaknesses in others, including a potential mate, with pinpoint accuracy. If a Level 3 senses strength in someone, and they click in other key areas, then a powerful, potentially lifelong alliance can be made. But if he senses weakness, especially in a potential mate, he will not respect them. This lack of respect will justify taking advantage of them.
A Level 3 sees what he sees. But what he decides to do with the information ultimately depends on his personality and financial situation. If he is struggling financially, then he is certainly not beyond exploiting a mate to reach higher ground. You also have those Level 3s who can be doing quite well financially but will still take advantage of a mate perceived to be weak, simply out of habit or sport.
Dolphin and Level 3
Nothing explained in the previous paragraph about a Level 3s dark, antisocial traits is evident upon first meeting him. The real him is purposely buried beneath his personality. What Dolphin will see is a man who is powerful and no-nonsense but also intelligent, considerate, comical and emotionally available. A Level 3s raw manliness and dark charm is quite intoxicating to Dolphin who is drawn to such powerful traits in a man because it makes her feel safe and wanted. This, in turn, goes a long way towards quailing her Abandonment demon.
A Level 3 is struck by Dolphin’s beauty and dignity but quickly moves beyond these superficial qualities to what her facial expressions, body language, style of dress and other tells are all saying about her. Not far into their first conversation, a few well-placed questions designed to spot weakness convinces a Level 3 that he’s dealing with a female who is emotionally driven. But again, what he chooses to do with his assessment of her depends a lot on his personality and financial situation.
What is for certain is that once a Level 3 concludes his assessment of Dolphin, he will immediately begin building a wall around her psyche with his dark, antisocial philosophy. This wall provides Dolphin with much needed answers for dealing with life and people that can’t be found at school, work or church. But the primary purpose of this wall is to block out the opinions and advice of family and friends who may be concerned about their Dolphin dealing with a man with such a checkered past. If she chooses to embrace a Level 3s wisdom and apply it to her path, she will unwittingly begin the process of being onboarded into his dark world as a devout follower.
Dolphin is smitten by a Level 3s surprising intellect and strong mind. Perhaps more impressive to her is the fact that he’s taking the time to show her that he cares about her with his kind words and advice. She agrees with him that her family wants to control her life and doesn’t want her to be happy. Dolphin feels safe and protected by her Level 3 and wishes she could have met him earlier in her life. She believes that she may have finally found a man that she can put all her faith and trust in and is eager to find out what the future may hold for them.
In Dolphin’s emotionally driven mind, she has finally found the man of her dreams. A Level 3 sees Dolphin as a chick who is prepared to do virtually anything he wants her to do. Family and friends see that their Dolphin is in yet another controlling relationship. But try as they might to get her to realize this, the man that she’s dating seems to have convinced her that they’re the problem.
Once a Level 3 gets a female in this state of blind dedication and isolation, the sky is the limit as to how he may exploit her love for him. If he’s struggling financially, the outlook is far grimmer for her than if he’s financially stable. When Dolphin falls in love, there is very little that she won’t do for her man. It’s as if something beyond her control takes over to where nothing outside of pleasing him matters. The reality is that the universe did not build Dolphin to resist a Level 3s strong mind and dark charm. In prior centuries, there was a lot for a Level 3 to conquer so he didn’t need to conquer his woman. But in this age of governments, police officers, earthly laws and prisons, many Level 3s attempt to avoid going to jail by focusing their talents on their significant others. Sadly, such a dysfunctional relationship between Dolphin and a Level 3 can last a number of years before Dolphin finally wakes up or the Level 3 finds a new toy to tear apart. This is why Dolphin should run in the other direction the second she sees a Level 3 headed in her direction.
Perhaps surprisingly, a Level 3 tends to be a great (albeit stern) father. This is especially true when he is financially stable. However, if he’s not financially stable then his quest to acquire financially stability and the respect and dominion that comes with it can seem more important than his fatherly duties. If Dolphin chooses to have children by him, then she may find herself in a position of having to support him just to keep him around to help raise them. For these reasons, these two do poorly in this area of a relationship.