For many African Americans the urban dating dynamic during the 1980’s was about harsh realities and drastic change. This evolution, if you will, which continues to influence how we date, entered the decade like a lamb but went out like a roaring lion. By…
The sound of black voices laughing and shouting amidst the music and tinkling of glasses fill urban nightclubs with a heightened sense of blackness. On the surface it seems as though everyone is simply chillin’ in their respective clicks while talking and getting their…
A stronger, wiser you have awakened and it feels good to begin dating again. Don’t punish this person for what others did to you in prior relationships but do learn from past mistakes and try not to repeat them. Right now you possess the keys to…
Congratulations!Your Summer season is very special. The fact that you and your partner have made it to this stage of your relationship cycle proves that you approve of his mindset, value each other’s time, are able to communicate and are willing to please each other sexually.…
If you fear that your man is cheating or otherwise disrespecting you in the relationship then chances are your stress level is high and your Avatars are already bubbling towards the surface. Try not to dwell on the unknown. I know it’s easy to…
When a man penetrates you he is not just penetrating your womb. He is also penetrating a vast psychological universe filled with hopes, dreams, fears and rage. The man who can tame this cauldron of competing emotions is blessed with your psyche’s ultimate gift:…
