You must find more balance in connections that are important to you if you are to maintain them. Your personality and life experiences makes it difficult to let go and trust. You need to realize that all this does is allow negative aspects of…
Bullying: Rite Or Wrong?
When most people think of bullying they envision teenage social groups converging on an unsuspecting peer with aggressive teasing that quickly turns into harassment and humiliation. But there is another form of bullying that stretches far beyond this example and is equally as disturbing.…
A Tail of Two Kardashians
Okay, ass one Kardashian prepares for marriage, the other one is wrapping her mind around divorce. Sources have confirmed that Kim Kardashian and Kanye West are planning a June wedding in Paris. And according to RadarOnline, the nuptials will be aired live on the…
Kim and Kanye Tying the Knot? Seriously?
Life couldn’t be any better for celebrity couple Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Not only are photos of their young daughter, North West, finally circulating, but published reports are also saying that the celebrity couple is secretly planning to wed. According to multiple sources,…
A Woman Scorned
You win back to back NBA titles; have fame, fortune, looks, tons of cash, and a hot new girlfriend. Life should be good right? Well, if you’re Dwayne Wade of the Miami Heat, that may not be the case. Wade’s ex-wife and baby’s momma…
The Three Primal Realms
In order for a boy to evolve into an enlightened man, he must conquer Three Primal Realms. These three realms exist in the universe and communicate to each male being by way of the mind, which is the universe. The purpose of the Three…
Is He Unable to Keep a Job? Maybe it’s Not the Economy…
The Relationship Shaman recently came across an online forum with an interesting question posted for readers to chime in on. The question was, “Why don’t black men like to work today?” As I scrolled through the replies, the discussion quickly became a heated debate as…
Ray Lewis: The Good, The Bad and The Evolution
With the 2013 NFL season upon us, The Relationship Shaman thought it would be appropriate to congratulate Ray Lewis, former inside linebacker of the Baltimore Ravens. Not because he helped to inspire the Ravens to victory in Super Bowl XLVII, but rather, because of…
Birth of the Five Male Mindsets
There are Three Primal Realms that govern the male mind. They are the realms of Fear, Conquest and Enlightenment. Within these Three Primal Realms there exist five Levels of awareness. Each Level represents a separate Mindset or outlook in life. When a Level is…
Rihanna and Chris Brown: Don’t F–king Understand It!
While fans remain bewildered as to the current status of Chris Brown and Rihanna’s relationship, Rihanna herself seems even more perplexed when it comes to understanding the concept of love. At a recent concert at L.A.’s Staple Center the young star was quoted as…
Male Mindset: Level 4
Ancient description: Knows and knows not that he knows/knows and knows that he knows View of Women: jewels to play with and enlighten Strength of conversation on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being superb: 8-10 Principles: Earthly: very good to masterful.…