Turtle and Level 4: Compatibility and Challenges
A relationship between Turtle and a Level 4 is just what the doctor ordered for both. A Level 4 is impressed by Turtle’s discipline and structure and eager to learn more about the real woman buried beneath the protective shell. He also senses that her cosmic makeup is very conducive to his plans in life. Turtle finds a Level 4s intellect, ambition and raw, primal manliness very appealing. Add his charm and charisma and it’s easy to see him as the perfect man for her. But a Level 4s view is always expanding, causing some people, place and things that once had his undivided attention to gradually become less relevant. If Turtle isn’t careful, she can become lost within a Level 4s larger picture.
Turtle
Because Turtle exist in the emotionally charged quadrant of “emotions”, and because her governing houses are her 1st house of Love and 2nd house of Hope, many would conclude that she oozes love wherever she goes. But it’s not that simple with her. Because her guardian spirit protects her by preventing her from surrendering to love too soon, many Turtles can find surrendering to love at all very challenging. When Turtle does surrender to love completely, she can become very attached and dedicated, which makes her vulnerable. What she needs is a man who can love back with patience and compassion.
The short-tempered 5th house of Scorn connects females Mindset to a treasure trove of dark and subjective universal energy designed to protect, guide and warn them as they embark on their life journey. However, connections to this unforgiving house vary, depending on mental strength and other factors. The weaker the connection, the less of this protective energy can be accessed. Because Turtle’s connection is faint, powerful love and hope energy resonating from her governing houses of Love and Hope can prevent these warnings and instructions from getting through to her. As a result, the universe is unable to help her out very much when it comes to picking the right man.
Level 4
A level 4 tends to find more flaws with the concept of love than value. This is especially true when he’s younger in life or a street Level 4. To connect with him on the deepest of levels, his woman must get him mentally, fit into his plans and be open to his guidance. Equally as important is at least having a basic understanding of the network of dark and indifferent universal principles and codes of conduct that shape his outlook and defines him as a man. There will also be times when a Level 4 will need his space to finetune his ideas and projects and feed his powerful mind with his life experiences. His woman should not see this as him excluding her, but rather, his way of becoming a better man for her and the planet.
A Level 4 may not be a big fan of love in the traditional lovey dovey sense, but he realizes how important this idea is to the female population. He’s also quite capable of keeping his personal opinions on the subject hidden and allowing his woman to interpret his desires for her however she chooses. Many Level 4s do however get more on board with the concept of love as they get older and settle down.
A Level 4s view is constantly changing and evolving as the third primal realm of Enlightenment gains more influence over him then the second primal realm of Conquest. People, places and activities that once held his undivided attention can become less and less significant as the years go by. This is also true with a significant other, especially one that he met much earlier in life. The best way to keep up with a Level 4s ever-evolving outlook is to grow with him. But this requires humility and an open mind.
Turtle and Level 4
The attraction between Turtle and a Level 4 is instantaneous but don’t expect wedding bells right off. For these two, it’s all about enjoying life and not slowing down. Depending on whether Turtle is dealing with a street, creative or spiritual Level 4, his definition of enjoying life can be anything from the nightlife to a more spiritual journey. Turtle’s idea of fun varies greatly, but so long as she’s in the company of someone she loves and who loves her, little else matters.
Turtle and a Level 4 may begin their journey in the limelight, but even during this early stage of their lives a deeper mental connection is quickly forming. The more Turtle removes her shell allowing her Level 4 understanding of how her complex upbringing shaped who she is, the more he will want to protect her. Their conversations unlock priceless doors in Turtle’s mind allowing her to let go and begin the process loving naturally. And this powerful mental connection that Turtle forms with her Level 4 is felt just as powerfully as love.
But again, when Turtle loves, she loves hard and often blindly, even with a man of normal intellect. If Turtle isn’t careful, she can become so submerged inside a Level 4s powerful outlook that very little beyond what he thinks matters. Once a Level 4 realizes this, he may begin viewing Turtle as a puzzle solved and become less fascinated by her as more complex puzzles gain his attention. If a Level 4 is young and or a street Level 4 who’s into illicit activities, he’s not beyond parlaying Turtle’s blind dedication to improve his socioeconomic situation. However, if Turtle maintains her voice in the relationship, she has the best chance of remaining in the center of a Level 4s view for a long time to come.
A Level 4 applies his deep insight and wisdom to his parenting skills, which is why he is such a good father. Unlike some dominant male Mindsets, a Level 4 still values his children even when he is not financially stable. Even though some Turtles can struggle with the idea of becoming a mother themselves, they do possess the nurturing energy to be a good parent. All they need is a partner who can help them transition into that role. A Level 4 is a great choice.
