Spring
There are few experiences that can compare to embarking on your life’s journey with someone you love and trust. But for many women that ship has either already sailed or is still under construction. If this is where you’re at on your relationship journey then Spring Fling just might be the ticket.
Spring Fling is a safe, fun connection that excludes falling in love or living together while maintaining your Veil or Secrets. Whether the two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend, friends who kick it on the weekends or occasionally intimate, Spring Fling allows you the flexibility to enjoy a man’s company in a way that suits your current lifestyle and state of mind, and the freedom to move on seamlessly should the relationship run its course. For many women this can be the next best thing to a soul mate.
It is worth mentioning here that what makes Spring Fling work is the acceptance that the two of you are not committing to a journey and, therefore, accept the fact that either one of you can move on at any point in time. Should either one of you acquire feelings that go beyond this understanding, then it would be wise to sit down and rethink the significance of the relationship and perhaps moving it into a Summer season. Good Luck!
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Thank you(4) uR quick NSightFULL Response Lisa.
Mastering the BIG 3 of the Relationship Cycle would not be up to me and me AL (ONE). If (2) B(come) (1) it is up (2) both responsible (4) the Relationship.
Take this allegory statement as mathematics: 2=1 when divisible by 1/2
If child(ren) are involved now the equation has become more complicated:
1(self)/2(relationship) multiplied by another being becomes not only multiplied but is divisible. The relationship is only multiplied if the 2 are ready to become divisible in Love. Their Union of Love Once about the 1/2 must now spread and become 2/3.
That means both parties must be willing to give up a part of the relationship that once was only about them. However, without division there would be no multiplication and vice versa.
Again it comes back to: THERE WOULD BE NOTHING WITHOUT THE OTHER. WITHOUT DARKNESS there IS NO LIGHT and VICE VERSA.
If (1) party is not willing (even able to) (2) give up Selfish desires…then…
Division is not multiplied; the multi-function will be divided amongst itSelf and left with NO(1) but themself and NO(thing) will be left but
(0) zero…a vast Darkness in which will be left with (NO) thing:
No friends, No family, No value.
And the Value in which we regard ourself will become obvious to any(1) that put trust in us. We become Defeated in our own mind, because we haven’t learn to Master it.
The Result: Seperation, Suicide, Judgement, Injustice and a long list of
Anything not Worthy
Simply the answer to your question YES mostly and some/times (x’s)
No,
Only U, UR (self) can become Master, it is when we allow Heal(thy)
Relationships to(2) Guide our Wisdom we can become Masters.
We cannot be given entitlment by telling ourself We Are Masters, but only by being given that Title by Others in whatever the Relationship is; family and those not Blood, but considered SO which we call TRUE friends! Our family is given to us by Blood and although Blood is thicker than Water, without Water Blood will clot and become a Disease.
Therefore Blood is not Balanced without Water and so we cannot experience Spring without Winter; there’d be no monsoon in Summer without Snow.
Much Love,
Dove
I really enjoyed reading about the relationship cycle and the different phases one experiences while they are dating. I am curious though about one thing? If you are in a relationship and things are going well, does this mean that one bounces back between spring and summer?
Hmmm…this is a great question; one though I’ve not experienced the necessity to question it, but have with preperation of its possibilities.
I must re-evaluate AUTUMN and WINTER to consider these thoughts…So Lisa, if you are so serious (which you appear to be) in examining these thoughts, please refer to the Seasons of such. There I will (from a woman’s perception) give a broader sense of what has been questioned.
Meet you in the Fall and see you in the Winter!
Dove,
I have read your relationship resume and am definitely moved by your experiences. But just because you are in the Fall and Winter Season of your relationship cycle does not mean that we all will be? Why do you feel that I will meet you in the fall and winter season of this relationship cycle. Explain!
Hi Lisa,
I like your perspective. I’m not sure if you took me metaphorically or literally. However, I just meant through this site awaiting your comment that I would meet you there.
So much considering nature has to do with the number 4, not only the seasons…Wind, Earth, Fire, Water. North, East, South, West…etc. It is full circle. Although TheRelationshipShaman has a wonderful perpective, but there are so many other areas also. Studying this site has began to give me some of those insights that are beyond just the negative aspects of Winter and Fall.
Autumn: Is like communication sector where the relationship must clear away some of the debris in order to move to spacial content of evaluting oneself and the relationship. The tree begins to strip what it’s been holding onto, some leaves sufficient, others not. In essence, it is still communicating with the rest of nature. The leaves fall to replenish the ground beneath it, a nurturing process. The tree is communicating in harmony that not everything is perfect, but is willing to be a part of making something grow.
Winter: Now is the time that after that communication (gentle, chaotic honesty) that the chill of winter can make it or break it. However, it is also where the snow creates a blanket that not only creates essence of Life (water),but reflects the suns vibrant spectrum. This is the time when the tree is naked, vulnerable, but knows that without being true to its nature it is not sure whether the relationship is worth it or not. Anything worthy is going to be hard. You can not have one without the other.
Simply being in the seasons of when it is in bloom and vacationing in HAWAII are the easier seasons. But we always have to remember we will never truly exists forever in them without passing through the hardships of Autumn and Winter. It doesn’t mean the return to Spring and Summer will be a different relationship, it means it will be a more mature existing one if it gets through those harsher seasons.
Hope this explains it better.
Dove,
Your perspective had definitely brought some insight to the underlying & hidden messages behind the seasons that I need to explore further, especially as it pertains to the covering blanket of snow in the winter & clearing of the debris away of the debris in fall. They bring a fresh new perspective to the harsher seasons.
In looking back on my past relationship cycles, especially my last one, I began to analyze certain factors of my cycle against some of the information found throughout this site. One question for me that I will ask you to consider & respond to is whether or not you mastered the big 3 during your marriage as mentioned in the Dark Relationship Advice area. Might this advice have helped you in your marriage.
In examining my last relationship, I wish I had some of that knowledge earlier on in my relationship cycle.
See you in the Dark Relationship Advice arena!
I love the. Spring.fling,but I have a summer.fling that seems to be working just fine.
The Spring Fling sounds perfect to me! As a matter of fact, I’m working on a potential right now… 🙂
I think I need a spring fling ;0