Spring Fling…
When a man penetrates you he is not just penetrating your womb. He is also penetrating a vast psychological universe filled with hopes, dreams, fears and rage. The man who can tame this cauldron of competing emotions is blessed with your psyche’s ultimate gift: the keys to your inner sanctum. When this occurs, his image and view is placed in a very sacred house at the epicenter of your inner relationship universe. This is how you fall in love. The right guy will treat this inner sanctum with kid gloves. He’ll fuel self-esteem, quail fears and rage and accentuate hopes, dreams and physical pleasure. But the wrong guy will make your inner sanctum a slave to his aspirations so that he may exploit your will and pleasure until they become depleted. Then he will move on, leaving you alone to deal with the chaos he left behind.
Unfortunately, the mind can be fooled. And when it is, the healing process can be fraught with pain and bitterness. If this is what you are experiencing then you are not alone. This is normal. This is because your mind was not designed to be a way station for transient encounters with multiple men. It was designed to house the image and view of one man till death do you part.
This is why it is very important that you do not let the perpetrator back in! Life is too short to waste precious time dealing with men who have the ability to send your mind into a chaotic state. This will be tough. There are lesser forces at play inside your mind whose primal duty is to restore balance, even if it means reuniting you with the source of the trauma. If you surrender to these forces and let this man back in then the strength of your House of Scorn may wane. If it does then your mind will be left with little choice but to learn how to thrive amidst the chaos.
Don’t seek revenge by vandalizing property. All that’s going to do is cost you your dignity and further inflate his ego. If it is revenge that you seek then know this: there is nothing more damming to a man’s ego and libido then a woman who can quietly walk away. So become a true mystery by disappearing in the flesh and letting the memories of your island oasis live on to torment his mind as he craves your body (Hawaii can be a blessing and a curse). Let your house of Scorn feed off the fact that you mastered his money spot and allowed the mindset trapped within to swim to the surface and breathe without cost or drama. Know that as he continues to roam the earth sifting through what’s out there that the governing aspect of him will realize just how special you were but it will be too late. Realizing these truths will redirect the negative energy generated by the breakup away from your Avatars, limiting their strength, and convert it instead into positive energy that fuels self-esteem based on keeping him out of your life rather than letting him back in. This same energy will also help to destroy those positive images and viewpoints of him that remain trapped in your memory, waiting for the right opportunity to tempt you into letting him back in and unravel your mystery. This will allow your mind to heal and, when the time is right, blossom with fresh, new memories.
Your Winter season should also be about growth. Family, friends, career, faith and social events are all great avenues to pursue as a way of filling any voids as your mind heals. If there is something wild and spontaneous that you always wanted to do and haven’t got around to doing it, then now is the time to get out and do it. Finding ways to deal with the cold, harsh aspects of your relationship cycle will only make you a stronger and wiser person come your next Spring season, which is always right around the corner. Good luck!
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Here I am in winter again.It is a dark winter, but not too cold, surprisingly. I want to layer up, cover up, because of the frigid moments, put the blanket over my face so that no human can look at me, especially the gender (male) I am fond of.Isn’t there so much more than finding sociopathic love?This isn’t a term coined by institutions. It is coined by our innate humanistic grasp of wanting to find a (‘a’ as in ONE) romantic partner to spend our lives with.When we spend all our time in one season of relationships we tend to forget the importance of the continium behind why seasons change.And as individuals along our relationship paths we cannot stay in the same season with one person, but we can with one person different seasons, if were constantly in the same season…pletheras of Spring Flings, or Spring budding relationships that fizzle past that, many summers of then becoming afraid of commitment so nothing is let go therefore we sabotage it, and once a relationship gets to fall how it evolves from the care already put into it(the real testiment of vibrational patterns creation between forces) and when in winter how long do we stay frigid before letting growth happen from the very depths of our existing life beneath the surface of what can be seen. Because those who know us in, will see our season and still love us, the essential love patterns for laughter, joy, happiness, comfort, trust, and the ultimate feeling that they are the ones we spend the seasons over and over and over with and are with you in the present, not focusing on the past or too far in the future, but sees the season now, still knowing it will change, still accepting it for growth, maturity, the beauty of blooms which all seasons bring.
Transition (n)2 Winter
Sit, Wait, Relax
The freedom of Space, Time,
A Universal Soul LOVE
11: One and One Parallel Individuals
Made in the Mirror
Reflection of Learning
Giving of Teaching
Dancing Streams of
Light
Masculine energy, Feminine energy
On this Journey of Humanity
Contractual papers signed by
the Spirits their Mission
Space, Time, Universal Souls
Here in this Moment
Know Oneself and the
Other One will be Known
The Flame in my Heart
Like 2 burning candles
Side by Side
This is my Transition to
Winter, it is Cold, but
I am kept Warm
By the Thoughts of Love
Mission Control: We are here
We are ready, we are Love
This is our Mission: LOVE
Excuse me…not all sexual power is manipulation…but of EROS, the whole Season of the lesson that is taught here, Whether man or woman it can be about Love or Manipulation and if you are reading site in depth you already have a level of that understanding I am sure.
As moving past into future, therefore existing in the now, the very present has made itself prevailing. Out of darkness from a cold darkness where now am found beyond the spring and towards the end of summer I am ready for the fall. A fall where as leaves find themselves a gravitational force toward the ground, a rebirth is awaiting.
This is a site from a mans perception, but with compassion for women. Any woman reading this must comprehend that he who wrote this cannot write it from a womans perception except by that which is understood from the presence of being in woman’s company; what she has shared, communicated, and trusts in the friendship of the man (men) she surrounds herself with.
A Spring Fling is unforgettable, but I’ve not been the type of woman to allow myself to be fleeting. Therefore, when my marriage went from Summer to Winter, like the land of Phoenix we met in, without seasons in between there was hardly transition. There was much friendship, but love was not given the space between deciding ultimate commitment for lifelong union.
Now, close in space a transition to Autumn is upcoming…Winter will follow like a softness, contrast amongst the dark, long nights to the light the sun brings in rays of all color reflecting the white snow. Women!: empower All Women and give back to Love what Love gives you. Men!; empower all greatness what Love is Love in all that give to you. Women Love, Men Love, HUMANS LOVE.
LOVE (love) and MORE.
Sexual power is not empowerment; it is manipulation. The more humans manipulate the more they expect the same of. It is LIFE or no LIFE.
We choose to LIVE or not to LIVE. By every choice we make to control another whether conscious or not there is a sub level in which we may try; the level of this trying will only result whether we LIVE (or) decide no LIFE,
The Season, the Life in in which we exist in now, presently will prevail itself, the more we try to control the more we are controlled. We will always be tried with that which we try to do. We will always be justified by that which we make justified. We are the Master Controls of our own existence. We control the panel of the present moment, but ONLY within ourselves; the physics of what we try to control will only be like a court of justified trial, for karmatic balance will ultimately be the result of,
If you jump from the bridge, karma will only result what we would expect…hitting the ground beneath. Essentially, entering into a relationship we don’t consider the results will end up like the bridge we jump from, thus hitting the ground. Do we expect to land on soft ground? Do we expect to land on concrete? What we expect to land on will be the result of that whether we can get up from our fall, shake it off as hard as the suffering may be, or decide to die before we jump?
LIFE (or) no LIFE? To be (or) not to BE?
***Personal result: I should read more Shakepeare.
***Beyond Shakespeare: Love those who Love you, stay Strong, Confident, and Justified only with ONESELF and only then will a respectable UNION be the result of.
TO AL (L) ONE, with much LOVE and RESPECT for AL (L)
Unfortunately for me, I find that it matters not what race a man is or where he comes from; I’ve been ‘taken down through there’ by both black and white men enough times that I have real issues with trust.
My last boyfriend of two years not only lied to me repeatedly and cheated on me/with me the entire relationship but he completely destroyed the innate trust I had for all human beings – that is to say, until they give me a reason NOT to trust them.
It is winter in my soul. The last man has turned me cold. I called him a liar to his face and when I did he immediately backpeddaled then became so angry he ‘broke up’ with me… AGAIN after doing something similar many times before.
I’m not able to just ‘walk away’ without wanting revenge. I am not able to see the sunlight of the situation as it is right now without wanting to bring the clouds down upon him and shrouding him in darkness. It is the place he’s had me for far too long.
When it comes to fidelity, I have no problem being faithful; it seems the men I’ve been with, DO, however and that’s where the real issue lies. He used to say that the problem with men who cannot be faithful has nothing to do with the women themselves, but lies within the man. I believe this with everything in me. In this day and age, though, it’s not an intelligent thing to do, cheating with several different women. There are just too many variables and too many opportunities for disease.
His stupidity reaches far beyond his own perceived ‘intelligence.’
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