Spring

A stronger, wiser you have awakened and it feels good to begin dating again. Don’t punish this person for what others did to you in prior relationships but do learn from past mistakes and try not to repeat them.

Right now you possess the keys to all the doors leading into your Inner Sanctum.  And as many of you already know, if these keys wind up in the wrong hands virtually everything of value to you, including your household, your finances, your mind, your body and your soul, can be negatively affected. So, if you want to keep these priceless keys in your possession then this is what I   recommend that you do before you have sex with this man or let him know where you live.

First, take a Free Mindset Reading  to find out what mindset he is. This free reading will give you valuable insight into his mental outlook on love, sex, monogamy and career; his propensity to be prosperous or broke, controlling or passive and a whole lot more! But in order for this free reading to be accurate, you must really get to know him . So spend a few evenings on the phone talking. Don’t be afraid to ask a lot questions, or better yet, take the free reading survey with him. Not only will it be fun but it can also help to establish a mental connection.  Also, apply some defense during your initial conversations with him. You’re a female so you’re different. Not everything about your past should be discussed during the Spring , of your relationship cycle so make sure you maintain your Veil of Secrets .

If all goes well on the phone and if you feel that his mindset is compatible with you then plan your first date at a nice public place and let the man spend a few dollars on you. Not only does this let you know that he is willing and able to invest in your company, but it also lets him know that this is what you expect. Avoid stimuli such as drugs and alcohol and venues such as a nightclub because they can cloud judgment and lead to an inadvertent sexual encounter. It is also best not to depend on him for a ride to and from the date.

If the first date goes okay then next up would be introducing him to some friends and family. Not the entire clan yet, but just a trusted friend or family member (no haters) to perhaps meet for drinks or double date to a movie (make sure he pays your tab). Not only are friends and family able to spot red flags that you may have overlooked, but you also want to make sure that he’s not trying to avoid them. Most users will avoid a woman’s friends and family like the plague, paranoid that additional sets of eyes may see through their dark charm. Or, they’ll find something wrong with the friend or relative to justify not having to be around them again, gambling that you will do the same to maintain the relationship. The purpose of these tactics are to isolate you from them, which makes it easier for him to take advantage of you. Such a guy should have no place in your life

If the guy can hold a decent conversation, spends money on you twice (without sex) and gets along with people who care about you then chances are the only key he’s interested in (or is able to secure) is the key to your heart. At this point it only seems natural that the relationship progresses towards intimacy. Just make sure that the two of you are sexually compatible by discussing each other’s likes, dislikes, fetishes or fantasies. Not being willing or able to please each other in the bedroom can lead to an unfulfilled sexual experience and cheating. Now is the time to find out.

The Spring  of your relationship cycle is when you have the most power to shape the relationship to your best interest, so use it wisely.